BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//132.216.98.100//NONSGML kigkonsult.se iCalcreator 2.20.4// BEGIN:VEVENT UID:20251009T010616EDT-2006hXRXae@132.216.98.100 DTSTAMP:20251009T050616Z DESCRIPTION:Metta Means I’m Sorry you’re Sorry: Intimate Enemies and inters ubjective Agency in Cambodia\n\nDarcie De Angelo\n \n\nSch olars have asserted that because Cambodians are Buddhist\, they rationaliz e violence and trauma through ontological alterity\, that is\, a Buddhist ‘lack of agency’ (Cassaniti 2012). Karma\, reincarnation\, codes of strict behaviour\, and hierarchy weave the ‘red thread’ that explain how people  ’allow’ violence to take place. But\, in Cambodia\, these arguments risk r epeating colonial convictions of ‘docile’ subjects\, which do not correspo nd to histories of political uprisings\, sanctioned revenge\, and genocide . Today\, former Khmer Rouge leaders and cadre must live and work side-by- side with their victims. How can we ‘archaeologize’ the ‘lack of agency’ o r rather\, the contemporary understandings about self-expressed in Khmer R ouge survival narratives in another way? What are the logical extrapolatio ns of different expressions of agency when Cambodians say they feel metta for demining rats and dogs\, that means\, according to a deminer: “I’m sor ry you’re sorry”? My fieldwork among deminers\, who work with mine detecti on rats\, shows that metta\, or ‘pity-love\,’ a Buddhist sentiment\, when taken on its own terms rather than translated\, helps to understand Khmer  Rouge survival stories as a way to provoke pity in the listener. To be pit iable in Cambodia is to be loveable\, but\, more importantly\, for a postg enocidal nation\, to be pitiable proclaims the teller’s innocence. This is  especially significant when Cambodians must confront the material remnant s of war\, when Khmer Rouge leaders manage demining organizations\, and wh ere every survivor\, including one’s self\, is an “intimate enemy” (Theido n 2012).\n\n \n DTSTART:20161014T163000Z DTEND:20161014T183000Z SUMMARY:Metta Means I’m Sorry you’re Sorry: Intimate Enemies and Intersubje ctive agency URL:/channels/event/metta-means-i%E2%80%99m-sorry-you% E2%80%99re-sorry-intimate-enemies-and-intersubjective-agency-263391 END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR